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Alpha Delta Phi

Alpha Delta Phi

[NOTE: The first couple of paragraphs aren't the most fun to read, but they do give some insight on B's sorority, which is important. But if you want to get down to the good stuff, scroll down to the bolded M. Thanks! ❤️ ]

Blog #4:
Getting ready for college has been stressful as fuck. I got a job right off campus at a coffee shop, called The Brew. The money I make from that will go toward taking care of myself, like buying clothes, gas for my car, room appliances, food, etc.

My mom agreed to work with my dad, pull their money together, buy my books and whip out the bonds they arranged for me when I was a baby. Just ecstatic is my mood right now. Money was my biggest worry, so now that that's out the way, I can relax and turn up.

After a long week of discussing my accomplishments, interests and what I know about what's going on the world, I made it. Philanthropist activities involve going out and picking up trash off the sides of roads and in parks, volunteer work and hosting charity events to raise money for good causes.

We have a big ass mansion and I heard they throw the wildest parties. College is supposed to be the best time of my life, and I'm ready. I have to room with 6 girls: Jessie, Falisha, Danny, Candy and LaLa. LaLa and I are the only freshman and new pledgees in our room. The rest were sophomores and juniors.

Right now everyone seems friendly, but the house is huge, with a lot more girls. I know I can't be friends with everyone, but I want to have good relationships with as many as possible.

I'm gonna be on my best behavior because I have no money to spare if I get fined for breaking any rules. Another big part of Alpha Delta Phi are charity events hosted by us, so that seems fun, but looks like it swallows time. I'm willing to stay committed, though. Ever since I was little I wanted to be in a sorority.

There are social events every week like mixers and parties, which are time consuming. In the midst of all this are my classes. My major is interior designing. I hope I'll be able to juggle it all, and at least now, I know I have no time for boys or slacking. No bullshit.

Ms. Perkins, Alpha Delta Phi's house mom, sat all the new pledgees down yesterday in the living room. I met LaLa during recruiting week and she seemed cool. We've been Snapchatting about the sorority ever since. LaLa has a shiny, light skin complexion and curly blonde hair with faded brown highlights that were barely noticeable. It suited her well. She was gorgeous. So of course when I'd seen her familiar face, I sat next to her. There were about 50 seats and Ms. Perkins was standing in front of everyone.

Ms. Perkins: "Welcome, new members of Alpha Delta Phi." she hollered, followed by a welcoming smile. Everyone clapped and cheered. She had shoulder-length blonde hair, glasses, was white and short with an Alpha Delta Phi green and orange bracelet around her wrist. I'm not very fond of the colors but whatever.

After a while Ms. Perkins introduced the only girl to the left of her, and her name was Kasey. I pegged Kasey as a cool girl. She had dark brown hair, was wearing a white crop top with ripped jeans and a plaid red and black shirt around her waist. Ms. Perkins told us although she'll be at the house often, Kasey's a junior and will be taking care of the house and girls while she's absent. Now on to the good stuff.

Ms. Perkins stayed at the house until 8 last night, but then Kasey sat the new girls down on her room floor around 8:15. LaLa and I sat down in front of Kasey's flat screen which was across from her and Ashley's bunk bed. The room had pictures hung up on every wall. They were of volunteer work, charity and fundraising events, other Alpha Delta members, the annual winter ball, and many other parties.

I noticed some of the pictures in the Alpha Den (a general room with a bed and television, books of pictures from years back). Kasey had one of the biggest rooms in the house but only 3 roomates. Two of which practically lived off campus or stayed at their boyfriends' frat house, according to LaLa.

Kasey: "Wassup ladies! Welcome to Alpha Delta Phi. Every September 14th, we throw the annual Alpha Delta Phi Sleepover. But it's not just any sleepover." she said smiling, getting out of her bed. She had on a yellow tank top and black lace panties. "You're an Alpha Delta, now. For life. We're having a sleepover which starts at 10:00, so I'm gonna make this quick so yall can get ready. There are many fraternities on this block. We're known for our philanthropy and sick parties. Although we have this sleepover every year, it's technically not allowed because we're breaking a lot of rules." she said, twirling her hair. I turned to LaLa and whispered under my breath.

B: "This bitch is creeping me out."
LaLa: "I feel you. If she tries to pull some cult shit, I'm dropping out. It's not even like they're period panties. Lace panties are fuck me panties. Girls that wear ripped lace panties always have something going on up there." she said, putting her finger in a circular motion around her temple. I looked at Kasey's lace panties and saw the tear in the sides. I started to laugh.

Kasey: "It's kind of an ask-don't-tell thing, with Ms. P. So for future references, don't bring it up. The guys from Delta Lambda Phi, or Delta Lamb, send over around 20 guys. The whole night, we drink liquor, you know, smoke some weed and play drinking games. That's basically it. But tonight is your chance to get yourself out there. Make a good impression on Alpha Delta Phi. We wanna see how you'll interact under the influence. There are 20 showers in this house, everyone in, shower, deodarize, lotion, perfume, lipstick. When you're ready I want your asses in the game lounge. Yall have an hour. Let's go, what are you all staring at me for?!" she yelled. "Get moving!" Ashley laughed.

Girls rushed off their asses and out her room door as fast as they could. They were pushing and shoving like animals so everyone could make sure they got some hot water. There were over 60 girls home last night. Why just 20 guys? I asked myself. I was so shocked to see girls completely disregard the fact that she was just like us. A college student- not our mom. She did have a mysterious and controlling way to her, though. No wonder she was left in charge.

After my shower, I walked 4 doors down from the bathroom and into my room. I shut the door behind me and walked over to my bed. We had 3 bunk beds and LaLa and I were lucky because our bunk bed was to the right of the room. If it were in the middle, the sunlight from the window would wake me up and if it were to the left, it'd be too close to the door.  LaLa already took a shower on the other side of the house and was now blow drying her hair in her black bra and panties. We had a big mirror and stations with our names on it to give space. Falicia and them weren't back yet.

LaLa :"What you plan on wearing?"
B: "Well it's a sleepover. I was thinking, I don't know... pajamas?"
LaLa: "Well I don't know what I'm wearing yet. And were you looking at the pictures smart ass? They all had on dresses. But I heard something juicy while I was waiting for the shower behind Tiffany." she said smiling.
B: "You just hear everything, don't you?" I asked laughing, shaking out my hair. I'd already put on my bra and panties and started brushing and blow drying my hair.
LaLa: "Do you know Alpha Delta Phi's history? If history repeats itself, then someone should be getting "blooded" tonight."
B: "I guess I don't know it well enough. Oh isn't that about some legend?"
LaLa: "Yup. What they do is half way through the night, they poor a bucket of pig blood on someone. It's sad because most know it's going to happen but never see it coming. The ritual is supposed to mark the start of a hopefully good year."
B: "And you believe that shit?" I asked, drying my last piece of hair, prepping the straightners.
LaLa: "Hell no. But they do. One thing's for sure. I'm gonna smile, get some numbers, maybe give some hickeys, but I will not be getting drunk. I eat bacon not drink it."
B: "That's not funny!" I screamed laughing.

I looked at my phone and it was 9:40. Falisha and them weren't back yet so we assumed they must've been at the pool already. They were juniors. Must've known to get ready early.

LaLa: " We have 20 minutes so put some product in your hair and let's go. We got men to meet! Word on the street is they decide who gets blooded. And whoever it is, I feel sorry for them. That's social suicide. Will follow you your whole college career. Sucks ass." she hollered, sitting on her bed and putting on her heels.

I did what she said to do with my hair and quickly did my makeup. Then slid into my little black dress. I definitely had some impressions to make on the men if I wanted to stay dry for the night.

Who will get pig blood poured on them and how will this wild "sleepover" go? Read the next part to find out! 💗 Thanks for reading this far and please leave comments, vote and read on.